LoveStory and Relationship

You might have heard the phrase “all men cheat.” This is a term used by most women but is it entirely true? We might not know the real answer however expects believe there is a reason to why men cheat. Whether we agree with them or not is a topic for another day. It has been discovered that a lot of men seem to have a lot of excuses whenever they are confronted with their cheating but the million dollar question is why do men cheat? Here are a few possible answers: Insecurity: In some cases, some men think they are not handsome enough or they may feel they are too old therefore they need to seek validation from another woman besides their partner. The relationship is not working for him: He is no longer happy in the relationship and he wants to end things with his current partner but doesn’t want to do this without having another woman lined up. He is just not ready to commit: The guy was just having fun and was not looking for anything long term. He is bored in ...

A woman opens up about how she found out that her husband had his own Tinder profile. Men are good at hiding things, but there are those small things that alert their partners like a sudden change of doing things. What are the key signs of a Once Off Cheater? * They will tell you they love you a lot more but not show it * They will have moments of guilt and buy you unexpected gifts * They will take you to nice places but the conversation is stifled * They put uncharacteristic distance down to being ‘stressed at work’ * They daydream a lot What are the key signs of an Accidental Cheater? * Staying back at work more often * Travelling or going out more * Spending more time with the kids * Looking more animated on the phone * Increased and suspicious social media use * Being manscaped or waxed to perfection * New clothes or lingerie that you haven’t seen on * Lines like ‘I just need some time alone’ are used more frequently * Talking about a new pers...

Fact is men lie ,women lie. Humans lie and if you think you dating the sweetest chick on earth and she’ll never cheat on you, think again. Basically, when someone is unhappy in a situation they look for that happiness somewhere else. Sometimes it’s in other activities or hobbies and sometimes it’s from other men. Ey, if you’re not gonna give me what I want why not go somewhere else? Conclusion, women cheat too. She’s Moody Even When It’s Not That Time Of The Month If she’s forever b****ing about nothing. She picks a fight over nothing she knows you have a hectic schedule but still chooses to make a fuss over you not answering her calls the 100 times that she tried calling you. #Cheating!…  Everything You Do Is Suddenly Perfect If she’s okay with EVERYTHING you do or what to do. She says yes to everything and no to everything you don’t like she has no time to engage on things with you. She asks no questions about you leaving the toilet seat up. Your regular arguments are no...

I AM a 26-year-old man and I have a question to ask you.  I used to date my uncles’ daughter in my teenage years and we eventually broke up because the relationship fell apart. I now feel that I am ready to settle down and I met the woman whom I love.  The only problem is that she is my cousin from my father’s side of the family.  Is it right for me to ask her to marry me? Hey Man Dating a member of your family can be complicated both socially and genetically.  Being honest about your feelings and give your cousin the opportunity to express her feelings.  It is important to get your family elders involved in this matter as they have the cultural know how on how your family specifically deals with such matters.  This situation has the potential to hurt a lot of people so proceed with caution.

Since then nothing has been mentioned about this by either of us – it’s as if it never happened – but I can’t stop thinking about him Dear Coleen I stayed at my sister’s house recently, as I have done many times when my husband works away from home. However, on this particular night, she was called into work at the hospital at short notice. I went to bed early but got up to go to the bathroom. As I passed her bedroom, the door was ajar and I heard moaning from inside where my brother-in-law was supposed to be sleeping. I saw him through the crack in the door and, for some reason that I cannot fathom, I took a deep breath, opened the door and stood there watching him pleasure himself. He got even more excited so then I dropped my dressing gown and joined him in the bed. We had fantastic sex and never said a word to each other. Since then nothing has been mentioned about this by either of us – it’s as if it never happened – but I can’t stop thinking about him. This is weird...

I’m 29, my husband’s 31. His parents held a family party for his niece’s 18th birthday last weekend. Everyone was there, including my husband’s brother who was home from working away in Saudi. He’s 36. We all get on well and there was plenty of alcohol and food. It was a brilliant party and we carried on drinking and dancing into the small hours. My husband went up to bed before me and said he’d be waiting for me. I followed him up 20 minutes later. I got into bed feeling frisky and we ended up having good time. I woke up a couple of hours later and sat up to get a drink of water. I pulled back the curtain to let some light in through the window from the street lamp right outside the bedroom. I looked round and got the shock of my life when I realized I was in bed with the wrong man. The man beside me was my husband’s brother. I’d gone into the wrong bedroom and I guess my brother-in-law thought it was his lucky day. We had all had a lot to drink. I ran to the right bed...

It’s every man’s dream to be the best lover in the whole world. Thanks to research we get to know how best can we improve our s.e.x drive just by eating the right kind of food. We are not just talking about things that put you in the mood with sensual taste or texture. These foods are known to stimulate or support processes in your body (like the release of hormones) that are related to se.xual performance and pleasure. Below are the 7 Foods that will give all men and women more power during s.e.x. 1. Watermelon Watermelon is sometimes referred to as “natural-viagra” because it contains citrulline, a compound that helps the body relax blood vessels, boosting blood flow. 2. Pine Nuts Pine nuts are a great source of zinc, which is associated with increased s.e.x drive. Add them to delish zoodles dish instead of carb-heavy pasta, which would lead to the most un-se-xy feeling: bloating. 3. Grass-fed Steak Beef also contains zinc, and iron, whic...

Kissing has a positive impact on your emotional and physical wellbeing. It makes both people feel good about themselves and can help strengthen relationships of all kinds, so kiss and kiss often. It’s good for you. Healthline that kissing — even your family and friends — has loads of mental and physical benefits that make getting your smooch on totally worth it. Here’s what the science says. It boosts your ‘happy hormones’ Kissing triggers your brain to release a cocktail of chemicals that leave you feeling oh so good by igniting the pleasure centers of the brain. These chemicals include oxytocin, dopamine, and serotonin, which can make you feel euphoric and encourage feelings of affection and bonding. It also lowers your cortisol (stress hormone) levels. Helps you bond with the other person Oxytocin is a chemical linked to pair bonding. The rush of oxytocin released when you kiss causes feelings of affection and attachment. Kissing your partner can improve relationshi...

The multi-talented star is well in her 40’s and still has that youthful glow. Recently, Thembi blew off some steam in Bali and left many of her followers on envy land with beautiful pictures on Instagram. One could tell, by her sincere captions that this trip to Bali is also doing wonders for her soul. ”Aloha Ubud Swing. I screamed my lungs out. I literally woke everyone here @ #ubud. Scary and beautiful 🤦🏾‍♀️ Life goes by too quickly,so laugh,relax have fun,love hard and try new things. Do crazy Sh!!!😝 Forgive and forget, don’t hold grudge.” It seems some of our celebrities are high on that #bodygoals tip. Recently, Rhythm City’s Samkelo Ndlovu broke the Internet with her flood of sizzling pictures. The actress was on a mini vacation in Cape Town, as she posted her best bikini snaps on the gram. A large part of Samkelo’s Insta pictures clearly paints an image of a young woman that is confident in her skin. Although a large number of trolls have not regarded Samkek...

Dear Coleen I’ve been married to a wonderful man for four years. We’re both 33 and have been together 10 years. Now I’m worried I’ve destroyed our marriage. My husband has this friend who’s a Jack the lad character and goes from woman to woman. My husband has always worried about him trying it on with me. I’ve always said he has nothing to worry about and that I’d never do anything like that. About two weeks ago my husband and I had an argument over something and nothing. We never argue. That night he had to go away for two days to attend a funeral. The same night I met up with some of my girlfriends in town. I got really drunk and said to my friends that I was going home. It was only about 11.30pm, so I waited for a late bus and my husband’s friend came past in a taxi and offered me a lift, which I accepted. The taxi stopped outside my house and we saw lights flicking on and off in my living room, so this friend came inside with me to check it out. But it was just a ...

Preparing for a job interview can be an overwhelming task for many job seekers. I mean, where do you even start? How can you anticipate what questions the interviewers will ask? How do you answer questions? The anxiety of thinking about the job interview causes many candidates to panic and make one of the biggest mistakes a job seeker can make – that is ramble on and on. One great way to prevent this during your interview is to follow a structure of answering questions. One popular strategy to use is the  STAR  Technique: S ituation OR  T ask: Describe a situation you were in or a task that you were required to undertake that prepared you (is relevant) to tackle this problem. For instance, “In my old company, I was challenged with the task of _______ that had similar problems” A ction: Describe the action you took to solve the situation. R esults: Describe the outcome. And how you can bring what you learned to the company and their challenges. So now t...

Illustrate your greatest career achievements to date When writing their resume, many job seekers make the mistake of simply listing the day to day responsibilities they have held in each role. It is vital to illustrate how well you have carried out this work through your list of achievements and select material to reflect the requirements of the specific post. Instead, it is vital that you can demonstrate to a prospective employer your accomplishments outside of these standard tasks. How does an achievement differ from responsibility? An achievement is a statement of how you have added value to an organisation. For example: instead of listing ‘researching and resolving accounts payable issues’, go one step further by explaining that as a direct result of your research, you were able to reduce the amount of un-paid invoices for the business by 50% and thus increase operating revenue. Sell yourself: What makes you unique from other candidates?  -Always express your ...

As a job seeker, your CV is what will determine whether or not you get invited for an interview. Meaning it is important to ensure your CV is well written and shows that you are the person the employer is looking for. So if you want to get interviews, there are things you need to include in your CV, no matter what position you are applying for. Here’s what you should always include in your CV 1. Your Contact Details This is an important part of your CV. You should never send your CV without including ways the employer can contact you in case they want to invite you for an interview. But that’s not all; you need to ensure that the contact details you put on your CV actually work. You do not want to miss out on an interview opportunity because you gave the wrong contact details or none at all. The details you need to put in the CV are your Name as they appear on your ID, Telephone Number (preferably 2) and your Email Address. 2. Profile Summary According to Rebecca ...